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Phone sex tips

What IS phone sex?

Phone sex is any conversation between two (or more) people that takes place by telephone, and whose purpose is to sexually arouse. What goes on between the parties is up to the individuals, and may be very explicit and hard core.

Why have phone sex?

For many, phone sex is a wonderfully erotic way to express one's sexuality and to do so without health risks. It is also a way to explore fantasies that would be difficult in real life to carry out, either because the practices are taboo, or because finding willing partners is difficult. It is convenient and you don't have to worry about catching a sexually transmitted disease. And if you want a one-night-stand, you don't have to worry about hurting your partner's feelings, or risk that she will develop an attachment a la "Fatal Attraction."

Here are some tips to make your time with Me more enjoyable - for Myself, as well as you:

phone sex tips Participate in the call!

I have many talents in the phone domination department, but what one man (or woman) enjoys may not be the same thing the next man enjoys. I don't sit here and read from a script - every call is unique, and My goal is to make your cock rock hard and to give you a fantastic orgasm (or two, or three...). It helps Me to know WHAT you want, and that's why many of us will chat with you a minute or two in the beginning, to try and discover what you want. If you have a particular fantasy, share that, and I'll head down that road (and don't be afraid to tell us your darkest fantasy - chances are good that I've heard it before many times).

So it's helpful if you can give some feedback during the call...tell Me yes, mmm, I like that, or no, I'd rather you do this....I cannot read your mind, and if you call and say nothing, I have no way of knowing whether you want Me to lick My own tits or dress you up in pink panties.

If this is your first time, or you're shy, don't be afraid to tell Me. I will take charge of the conversation, but still need *some* input from you, or you may end up not getting what you want.

Remember your manners

You don't have to spend ten minutes telling Me how good I was, but at least take a second to say "Thanks" and "goodbye." Just shooting your load and hanging up is rude. If you're polite and say thanks, I'll remember you the next time you call, because I like to know I'm appreciated.

Speak up.

If your wife/mom/roommate is in the next room and you're keeping your voice low so she won't hear, try to understand that I may have difficulty hearing you. That's frustrating for Me when I know you're saying something, but I can't make it out and all I can do is say "What did you say? What? What?" You can take a pillow or blanket and place the phone and your face into that to muffle the sound....or perhaps wait until your wife isn't home.

Feedback

I rely on feedback to help Me improve and I always strive to make this as sexy an experience as I can for you. If you liked the call, it would be helpful if you would leave some positive comments and feedback. You don't have to do it immediately, but can do it at a more convenient time. Go here to leave feedback on the calls you've made. I really appreciate that!

Don't ask

Please don't ask for My home number, address (so you can send flowers/gifts), or ask Me to temporarily lower My rates for you. You may think you've got a smooth line, but believe Me, I hear it all the time...and it's tiresome. I enjoy what I do very much, and I'm glad to spend time with you, but there are a few guys out there (not you of course, but I MUST be careful) who aren't so nice, and I have to play it safe. REMEMBER that I'm a real person and doing this from My home.

Screwups

Occasionally the phone system screws up and a call gets disconnected. Don't assume that I hung up on you - I am dependent on the phone systems, and things happen. Call Me back, or send an email.

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